Gay Marriage – What’s the big deal?

I’ve been thinking about marriage a lot lately. I’ve been married twice – once for 5 ½ years and this time for almost 30 years. Don’t get me wrong. I love my husband and love being married. But, what’s the big deal about marriage?

Those who say marriage should be between a man and a woman are barking up the wrong tree. Have they looked at the divorce statistics lately? Seems to me that we heterosexuals haven’t done such a great job at it!

  • 45-50% of first marriages end in divorce
  • 60-67% of second marriages end in divorce
  • 70-73% of third marriages end in divorce

Come to think of it, has the LGBT community checked this out? Maybe they want to rethink this whole marriage thing! (Just kidding)

I think we ought to give the LGBT community a crack at marriage and see if they can do a better job at it. Maybe they can teach us a thing or two about staying married for the long haul. We won’t know if their statistics will be better than ours until we give them equal rights. I say give them the right to marry and the right to divorce and let’s see who is better at it!

 

Miles-Rode in on a bus from NY to march for marriage equality

October 23, 2009
Miles rode into Washington D.C. on a bus, along with about 1,400 others. They all came to the National Equality March to join in the march for marriage equality. Here he tells us why he came and why marriage equality is important to him.

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Randy & Holly, Marching for marriage equality

October 22, 2009
I met Randy & Holly in Washington D.C. at the National Equality March. They came fromYork, PA to march for equality for their bisexual son and for all people to have the freedom to marry. Here is their story.

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David - Why I march for Marriage Equality

October 21, 2009
David is a young man from San Antonio, Texas, currently going to school in New York. He tells us why he came to Washington D. C. to march for marriage equality.  
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Wayne & David-Why Marriage Equality is important to us.

October 20, 2009
Wayne and David are together for 23 years and live in Jacsonville, Florida. They traveled to Washington, D.C. to march for eequality and tell us why and how not being able to marry has impacted their lives.


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Scott, Tyler & Hope: Family

October 19, 2009
While at the National Equality March, I met Scott and Hope and their son Tyler. They were there marching together for equality for all gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. I asked them to share their story.

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Scenes from the March on Washington

October 15, 2009
I'm not the greatest videographer, but this is what I took with my camera and my experience marching for the freedom to marry with thousands of others on Sunday, October 11th in Washington, DC. There are three videos, all of them short. I hope if you weren't able to attend, you enjoy watching them and seeing what it was like from my perspective.

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The March for Equality in Washington D.C.

October 14, 2009
Marching for marriage equality was an amazing experience. New reports vary the number of people in attendace between tens of thousands to 200,000. No matter the number, the feeling was wonderful to be with all those people fighting for LGBT rights.

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Family, Love, Fun, Memories

August 28, 2009
That’s me – I’m all about time with my family: my husband, my children & grandchildren (when I’m lucky enough to get it!), having fun and making memories.  And I take lots of pictures when I’m doing it so I can relive those precious moments time and time again.

I’ve always been that way, but today I actually do something concrete with my photos – I actually put them in albums and tell the story of my pictures.  When my children were young (and I was too) I didn’t have time to m...
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Gay Marriage, DOMA & Obama

August 26, 2009

I’ve been asking myself lately, is Obama in favor of the freedom to marry or not? Is he committed to repealing DOMA or not? Did he mean what he said when he was campaigning or not?

All the while so many people were working so hard to get him elected; I was working hard to defeat Proposition 8. I rejoiced at his election. I was sitting alone in the Marin Headquarters for the No on 8 election day action listening to the radio. When the polls closed in California and the news channels announ...


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Susan Berland A gay marriage activist and a Jewish mother with a quirky sense of humor, helping couples and families turn their photos into legacies with beautiful memory books. It’s all about fairness and equality.

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